In this post, I’ve listed 5 signs that I thought were particularly telling from a list posted by Debtors Anonymous. They are an organization of men and women who share a desire to stop incurring unsecured debt. Like other “anonymous” type groups, people can start up regular meetings and receive support. There are also a number of resources on the website such as recovery stories, and a Debt Quiz – to help assess whether you may have a problem.
* Being unclear about your financial situation. Not knowing account balances, monthly expenses, loan interest rates, fees, fines, or contractual obligations.
* Poor saving habits. Not planning for taxes, retirement, or other nonrecurring but predictable items and then feeling surprised when they come due; a “live for today, don’t worry about tomorrow” attitude.
* A different feeling when buying things on credit than when paying cash – a feeling of being in the club, being accepted, being grown-up.
* Living in chaos and drama around money. Using one credit card to pay another; bouncing checks; always contending with a financial crisis.
* A feeling or hope that someone will take care of you, if necessary, so you won’t get into serious financial trouble; a belief that there will always be someone to whom you can turn.
* A tendency to live on the edge. Living paycheck to paycheck; taking risks with health and car insurance coverage; writing checks and hoping money will appear to cover them.
Read their list of 12 signs here. Many people who exhibit these signs have a hard time talking about them. Confiding in someone and seeking support is an excellent first step.
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